Notes to Self

Thoughts on psychology, spirituality and soft skill development for personal improvement


Balanced Perceptions

"Within the first three seconds of a new encounter, you are evaluated ... even if it is just a glance." - Michelle Sterling

And that's supposed to be human nature - to judge someone based on first impressions. Even though, rationally, most of us know that even a lifetime isn't enough to get to know someone really well. People will always surprise you because everyone changes.

So what should a person who doesn't care about fashion, hairstyle and looks do? Change - because people are judging you, even if you are not; because a healthy, happy life is all about balance and flexibility in everything you do, and believe.

"If you can't change facts, change your attitude." - unknown